The Gardens, Weeds & Words podcast, Series 3 Episode 7

To Stand and Stare

with Andrew Timothy O’Brien

To celebrate the publication of my first book, To Stand and Stare: how to garden while doing next to nothing, I’m having the tables turned on me. For this episode, I find myself on the other side of the mic as friend of the podcast Alice Vincent drops by to interview me about how the book came about, how it relates to my wider work, and why a title that’s very much not a ‘how to garden’ manual still manages to have so many ‘how to...’ sections in it.

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As winter looks as though it might be thinking about beginning to call it a day (though you never want to call the end of a season too prematurely), new things are springing up in gardens everywhere, and I’ve been cheered by so many accounts of To Stand and Stare arriving in gardeners’ hands throughout the UK, as well as in Europe, North America and Canada. In some respects, writing a book is a little like gardening – not least in that there’s only so much you can do at the outset before you have to hand it over to powers greater than yourself and trust that all the work you’ve put in will have equipped it to make its own way out there in the world. At least the book won’t have to contend with the worst of the weather.

Alice Vincent returns to Gardens, Weeds & Words, this time in the role of interviewer, though soon to be heard on an upcoming episode talking about her own new book, Why Women Grow: stories of soil, sisterhood and survival, which will be published in March. I’m particularly grateful to her for making time to quiz me, and for bringing such humour, grace and insight to a role more usually filled by my own brand of dubious and galumphing and charm. You’d best make the most of it, though – I’ll be back on that side of the mic in the next episode.

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Gardens, weeds and words podcast, S03E07 show notes

A blend of slow radio, gardening advice and conversation, and readings from the best garden and wildlife writing.

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Garden soundtrack

A blend of slow radio, gardening advice and conversation, and readings from the best garden and wildlife writing.

Cracking ice while walking through the fields – is it too soon to say, or is winter beginning to think about handing over to spring?

A great time for mulching.

Reading from To stand and stare 3:02
Read by Andrew Timothy O'Brien

To stand and stare: how to garden while doing next to nothing, by Andrew Timothy O'Brien. DK Life, 2023.

05:47  Interview with Andrew, by Alice Vincent

06:40 role reversal

07:35 Introducing the book – Andrew

09:14 Introducing the book – Alice

10:00 A book that grants permission

11:12 on the plus side of getting it wrong

11:46 jumping to the book's Acknowledgements

14:00 how the book came to be

17:56 Alice on 'looking'

20:48 Alice on gardening as 'a tiny altering'

21:52 being empowered to garden the way you want to, rather than the way you feel you *should*

22:33 Andrew on the pros and cons of lists

26:08 Pottering

A breath from elsewhere, by Mirabel Osler. Bloomsbury, 1997.

28: 41 How much the soil holds – memories, stories, our selves

33:15 Bill’s place in the book

38:15 The ‘how to’ sections

43:19 The research – the ‘science stuff’

46:30 Andrew’s recent standing and staring – and Andrew answer to an Alice question

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Thank you to Alice Vincent for her table-turning stint in coming to interview me on my own podcast! Keep an eye out for Alice’s upcoming book, Why Women Grow: stories of soil, sisterhood and survival, published by Canongate on 2 March 2023.

You can find Alice on Instagram here

and the Why Women Grow podcast here

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